The Way to a Man's Heart is through his Stomach

I was just thinking.. assuming this statement to be true and in current scenario, if girl doesn't like to cook, what could happen?
1. Boys mother would be cooking the food. In that case, Mother will retain the special place in Man's heart and girl will be keep on thinking why the Man is Mama's boy.
2. Maid cooks the food. In this case, maid might find special place in Man's heart and later what could happen is known to everyone ;-).
3. Girl cooks the food. But as she doesn't like to cook the food, Man would not find the feeling in the food. So he would always be craving for that special food or might kept comparing it with someone else's like his monther/some aunt/somebody else's wife.

So learning out of this for boys is.. yaar don't be so fooddy.. try to change your DNA. Probably with this trial, we may be successful in some 400-500 years to update our DNA.

Current Marriage Scenario in India

http://www.hinduonnet.com/folio/fo9909/99090360.htm

Read this nice article today :)

Dr. Thara says, "marriage is often not the happily-ever-after phenomena as portrayed in fairy tales or films, nor is it a permanent state of romance. It is a life-long process of cementing a relationship in the face of several adversities and an ongoing process of physical and emotional accommodation, sharing and loving. Young people should neither idealise it too much nor have their knives sharpened all the time.

"There is no perfect marriage and there never will be one - neither is it necessary to be so. All the fun will be lost if marriage is always sedate and predictable."

Don't Want to Marry - Have to Marry | Confuzzed about marriage

........Welcome to GenX......
I have been thinking of writing this post from a long time. These days, whenever I talk to any friend of mine, who is about to get married or family is pressurizing to get married soon. All of them are having this sort of thinking. That due to one reason or other, people these days don't want to get married. EVERYONE want to have their OWN SPACE.
Now even if they are given a chance that things will happen as you want, then how do you want things happen to you. They are not sure about this, also. They would just say that, that I don't know, but at least not this way. Everyone is having that ideal condition that he/she meet someone of his/her dream and things settle down. Beside this option no one is sure what to do. Family wise there could be two possibilities
1. When Family is open and they would allow the person to meet and spend time to know the people. But in case there are options available, then there is dilemma, that would should be considered as preference.
2. When Family is conservative and only want arrange marriage, then today's youngster, who is so choosy that would think twice before buying a laptop, how can he/she can agree to marry a person after 10-15 chat.
Root Cause
One cause of this problem is that these day's we don't have get-together. Even if we celebrate our b'days etc, we would be having different party of office, other party of school friend. In this type of culture, we don't get chance to meet to new people. We always have a limited set of people around us and it gets really difficult to find the person of similar nature.
Short Term Solution
People these days are getting into LIVE-IN relationships to find a short term solution of this problem. But not sure, if this is feasible solution in long term.
After discussing the problem, I still don't know what is the solution now.
If anyone see any solution there, please share.