क्या सही है क्या ग़लत है ???

अगर हम किसी भी विषय पर बात करें, तो हमेशा उसके सही मानने वाले भी होते है और ग़लत मानने वाले भी तो हमें पता कैसे चले की क्या सही है और क्या ग़लत हर कोई अपने को हे सही मानता है जैसे के

1. चाहे तो कोई भी समय रहा हो, 20 साल के लड़के/लड़की को लगता है के उसका परिवार उसको Enjoy करने नही देता
40 साल के आदमी/औरत को लगता है की बच्चे उनकी बात नही सुनते

2. हर Teacher को लगता है के में तो बच्चो को पढाने के लिए itani मेहनत करता हूं और यह है के ध्यान नही देते इन्हे समझ ही नही है की यह क्या खोने लग रहे हैं
Students को लगता है के यह क्या फालतू का पढ़ा रहे हैं बस यही कोशिश रहते है के कोई ऐसा प्रशन पूछो की teacher अटक जाए यहे सबसे बड़ा Achievement है

3. Employee को लगता है की कितना भी काम करो कुछ भी नही होता और यह Managers सारा काम हम से करवाते हैं, ख़ुद कुछ नही करते
Manager को लगता है की काम के समय तो सबके Reason होते हैं पर Yearly Review के समय सबको सब कुछ चाहिए

4. सास को लगता है बहु न तो कुछ काम करती baatein kitani करवा लो
बहु को लागता है कितना भी काम कर लो सास को तो तस्सली होनी हे नही है

5. पति को लगता है के Tension के समय वैसे ही दिमाग ख़राब रहता है एंड पत्नी ko bhee rahta hai की उसे सब कुछ बताओ अब कोई क्या क्या बताएगा
पत्नी ko लगता है की अगर मेरे पति अपन बात मुझे नही बता रही है तो क्या वो मुझने अपना नही समझते, जो कुछ share नही कर रहे है

तो जब यही नही पता के क्या सही है और क्या ग़लत है तो किसी को क्या कहो ख़ुद क्या करो किसी और को क्या सलाह दो अगर कोई मुझ से पूछे के "क्या किसी को जान से मरना सही है" तो में कहूँगा बिल्कुल नही पर अगर वो Army में हो तो मेरा जवाब बदल जायेगा

To be Continued॥

मुझे पसंद - तो सही नही -तो ग़लत

हा जी तो आप मेरी सोच को सुनने में रूचि रखते हैं आपके समय के लिए बहुत बहुत शुक्रिया
आज मैंने सोचा की, आजकल मेरी सोच यह है के अगर कोई मेरा दोस्त मुझे कुछ मजाक में कह दे, जैसे की,

१. तू पूरा दिन खाता रहेगा क्या?
२. अपनी शक्ल देखो है आईने में
तो उसके में मजाक में टाल दूँगा पर आज कल हम घर में यह सब बातें नही सुन सकते अगर घर पर कोई यह बात कर दे तो बहुत बुरा लगता है बस मन में आता है "तेरे से मतलब" और यह सब कुछ ज्यादा मुश्किल हो जाता है जब यह बात "In-Laws" में से किसी ने कही हो

इसका तो मतलब हुआ, दोस्त से तो हम अपनापन बना लेते है "In Laws" से नही।

यह वैसे ही है के अगर दोस्तों में अगर कोई कह दे के डांस कर दे यह गाना सुना दे, तो वो सही है पर Ragging के समय यही बातें सुन कर लगता है के "तू कहने वाला होता कौन है"

अगर में ऑफिस से काम करके घर पहुँचा हूं और घर पर कोई काम के लिए कह दे तो लगता है, थक कर तो घर पर काम करके आया हूं और अभी कसे काम कर दूँ पर अगर उससे समय मेरे दोस्त का फ़ोन आ जाए कहीं मिलने के लिए तो मुझे थकान नही लगती तो फ़िर वो थकान कहाँ गयी फ़िर क्या में Parents से झूट बोल रहा था की मुझे थकान है'
तो इसका मतलब, में यही है की में वोही करता हूं, सुनता हूं, समझता हूं, जो मेरा मन करता है

Fwd: Daddy's Perception of Child when he/she age : 4 to 60

HOW A SON/DAUGHTER THINKS OF HIS/HER DADDY AT DIFFERENT AGES:

At 4 Years
My daddy is great.

At 6 Years
My daddy knows everybody.

At 10 Years
My daddy is good but is short tempered

At 12 Years
My daddy was very nice to me when I was young.

At 14 Years
My daddy is getting fastidious.

At 16 Years
My daddy is not in line with the current times.

At 18 Years
My daddy is becoming increasingly cranky.

At 20 Years
Oh! Its becoming difficult to tolerate daddy. Wonder how Mother puts up with him.

At 25 Years
Daddy is objecting to everything.

At 30 Years
It's becoming difficult to manage my son. I was so scared of my father when I was young.

At 40 Years
Daddy brought me up with so much discipline. Even I should do the same.

At 45 Years
I am baffled as to how my daddy brought us up.

At 50 Years
My daddy faced so many hardships to bring us up. I am unable to manage a single son.

At 55 Years
My daddy was so far sighted and planned so many things for us. He is one of his kind and unique.

At 60 Years
My daddy is great.

Thus, it took 56 years to complete the cycle and come back to the 1st. stage. Realize the true value of your parents before its too late

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Fwd: Today's generation :) Girls writing a letter to father

Father passing by his teenage daughter's bedroom was astonished to see the bed was nicely made and everything was neat & tidy. Then he saw an envelope propped up on the centre of the pillow. It was addressed 'Dad'. With the worst premonition, he opened the envelope and read the letter: Dear Dad, It is with great regret & sorrow that I'm writing you, but I'm leaving home.I had to elope with my new boyfriend Randy because I wanted to avoid a scene with Mom & you. I've been finding real passion with Randy & he is so nice to me. I know when you meet him you'll like him too -even with all his piercing, tattoos, & motorcycle clothes. But it's not only the passion Dad, I'm pregnant & Randy said that he wants me to have the kid & that we'll be very happy together. Even though Randy is much older than me (anyway,40 isnt so old these days is it?),& has no money, really these things shouldn't stand in the way of our relationship, don't you agree? Randy has a great CD collection; he already owns a trailer in the woods & has a stack of firewood for the whole winter. It's true he has other girlfrnds as well but I know he'll be faithful to me in his own way. Randy taught me that marijuana doesn't really hurt anyone and he'll be growing it for us and we'll trade it with our friends for all the cocaine and ecstasy we want. In the meantime, we'll pray that science will find a cure for AIDS so Randy can get better; he sure deserves it!! Don't worry Dad, I'm 15 years old now and I know how to take care of myself. Someday I'm sure we'll be back to visit so you can get to know your grandchildren. Your loving daughter, Rosie At the bottom of the page were the letters 'PTO' Hands trembling, her father turned the sheet, and read: PS: Dad, none of the above is true. I'm over at the neighbour's house.I just wanted to remind you that there are worse things in life than my report card that's in my desk centre drawer. Please sign it and call when it is safe for me to come home. I love u! -- Rosie

Fwd: reminder for gati event tomorrow 16th Nov, 2008

GATI FORUM: MUSIC, ART AND DANCE IN THE 20TH CENTURY

A talk by Dr Punita Singh

Sunday, November 16^th 2008

Siddhartha Hall, Max Mueller Bhavan.

7pm

Free Entry

The 20^th century provided a conducive backdrop for remarkable innovations in music, dance and the visual arts as constraints of content, form, structure and narrative were displaced by the use of elements not traditionally considered to be aesthetic or artistic. Experimentation with space and time, with texture, tonality, timbre and technology led to composers creating auditory works that paralleled 'modern' art movements such as impressionism, expressionism, fauvism, exoticism, evolving into postmodern artscapes that defied the very definition of what is construed as music or dance.

Using illustrative audio and visual examples, in this talk Dr Punita Singh will share observations and insights about some major developments in the history of western art music in relation to parallel trends in painting and dance.

Punita Singh is a musicologist, psychoacoustician and linguist by training. Currently based in New Delhi, she has taught at Washington University in the USA and McGill University in Canada. Besides lecturing on and conducting research on music, she also performs as a percussionist and has played with West African and flamenco dance ensembles.

The Gati Team

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"A person should not be too honest.
Straight trees are cut first
and Honest people are screwed first."
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"Even if a snake is not poisonous,
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"The biggest guru-mantra is: Never share your secrets with anybody. If you
cannot keep secret with you , do not expect that other will keep it. ! It
will destroy you."
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"There is some self-interest behind every friendship.
There is no Friendship without self-interests.
This is a bitter truth."
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"Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions - Why am I
doing it, What the results might be and Will I be successful. Only when you
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and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead."
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"As soon as the fear approaches near, attack and destroy it."
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"Once you start a working on something,
don't be afraid of failure and
don't abandon it.
People who work sincerely are the happiest."
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"The fragrance of flowers spreads
only in the direction of the wind.
But the goodness of a person spreads in all direction."
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"A man is great by deeds, not by birth."
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"Treat your kid like a darling for the first five years.
For the next five years, scold them.
By the time they turn sixteen, treat them like a friend.
Your grown up children are your best friends."
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"Education is the best friend.
An educated person is respected everywhere.
Education beats the beauty and the youth."
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