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if-you-love-someone-set-her-free

Just replied to this blog entry
http://thoughtcourt.wordpress.com/2008/09/25/if-you-love-someone-dont-set-them-free/
, so thought of sharing here also.

This blog entry present very beautiful thought about not letting the lovedone go from life, and basically don't let me 'free'.

My reply
On lighter notes, sentence is,
"If you love someone, set her free. If she comes back, she’s yours. If she doesn’t, she never was."
not
"If you love someone, set HIM free. If HE comes back, He's yours. If He doesn’t, He never was."

That's the perception difference between, MEN and WOMEN. I am not an expert but just can think this way, that girls take time to make any decision in case of relationship, but boys does not take that much time, so girl should not set a GUY free, because, he may not come back. But girl consider so many things, so if she is thinking of breaking then boy should just give her space, and don't force his emotions on her.

Life | Career | Problem | Failures | Disease => Successful Life

Steve Job's speech

Don't Want to Marry - Have to Marry | Confuzzed about marriage

........Welcome to GenX......
I have been thinking of writing this post from a long time. These days, whenever I talk to any friend of mine, who is about to get married or family is pressurizing to get married soon. All of them are having this sort of thinking. That due to one reason or other, people these days don't want to get married. EVERYONE want to have their OWN SPACE.
Now even if they are given a chance that things will happen as you want, then how do you want things happen to you. They are not sure about this, also. They would just say that, that I don't know, but at least not this way. Everyone is having that ideal condition that he/she meet someone of his/her dream and things settle down. Beside this option no one is sure what to do. Family wise there could be two possibilities
1. When Family is open and they would allow the person to meet and spend time to know the people. But in case there are options available, then there is dilemma, that would should be considered as preference.
2. When Family is conservative and only want arrange marriage, then today's youngster, who is so choosy that would think twice before buying a laptop, how can he/she can agree to marry a person after 10-15 chat.
Root Cause
One cause of this problem is that these day's we don't have get-together. Even if we celebrate our b'days etc, we would be having different party of office, other party of school friend. In this type of culture, we don't get chance to meet to new people. We always have a limited set of people around us and it gets really difficult to find the person of similar nature.
Short Term Solution
People these days are getting into LIVE-IN relationships to find a short term solution of this problem. But not sure, if this is feasible solution in long term.
After discussing the problem, I still don't know what is the solution now.
If anyone see any solution there, please share.

जानकारी ही बचाव है। Power of Knowledge

Intent of saying this is "Knowledge is very useful".
Knowledge of Job: I am in IT service company and I have seen that every new employee feel the problem that service company is expecting more of email writing skills rather then his/her technical skills. This is the very nature of the service industry. If we grow our knowledge and share the expericence with other, we would come to know that all the problems that we found in any system are nature of the system rather then problems in the system and one has to learn it.
देर सवेर सीखना ही पड़ता है
Knowledge in relationship: Consider the men-women relationship. Not just the couple relationship but this could be any possible relationship between man and woman. With reference to Men are from Mars and Women from Venus. (मस्त book है यह), man and woman have some specific nature and understanding and respecting that nature is very helpful in relationship. If we accept these difference as nature and respect them, this makes our life earsier, otherwise we keep on cursing the difference and nothing will change.

Crush [:-)]

Most of us have felt this feeling of CRUSH, but I think, we don't enjoy this most because we get so tensed that, we don't care about the moments that we can enjoy. I think, this time is more enjoyable then love(waise no exp. about love [;)]). I said so, because in love there are some expectations [thought most people would not agree with this] but in CRUSH, there are no expecations[everyone would agree].

Some people don't want to convey the message becuase, what the other person would think of him/her. Yes, I agree, that this is a valid question and depend on the perception, of other person. But conveying the thoughts are better then keeping them to ourself.

Three mistakes of my life - Chetan Bhagat

Today I completed reading this book. I have read previous two books of Chetan but did not find this one interesting. This is my rating for these books.
Five Point Someone > One night at a call center > Three mistakes of my life.

One thing which I appreciate about Chetan's writing skill is the way he discribes the beauty [;)]. Truly mind blowing. It appears like I am reading my own thoughts.

Think-Smile: Something about title

Think-Smile.....

These are two things that I have been doing till now in my life.

Think- I am always in thinking mode. Be it any time, any place, I am thinking.

Smiling- This is the second thing, I have been doing. But this would be my outer part. Be it any social group, I keep the environment light and smiling.