Don't Want to Marry - Have to Marry | Confuzzed about marriage

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I have been thinking of writing this post from a long time. These days, whenever I talk to any friend of mine, who is about to get married or family is pressurizing to get married soon. All of them are having this sort of thinking. That due to one reason or other, people these days don't want to get married. EVERYONE want to have their OWN SPACE.
Now even if they are given a chance that things will happen as you want, then how do you want things happen to you. They are not sure about this, also. They would just say that, that I don't know, but at least not this way. Everyone is having that ideal condition that he/she meet someone of his/her dream and things settle down. Beside this option no one is sure what to do. Family wise there could be two possibilities
1. When Family is open and they would allow the person to meet and spend time to know the people. But in case there are options available, then there is dilemma, that would should be considered as preference.
2. When Family is conservative and only want arrange marriage, then today's youngster, who is so choosy that would think twice before buying a laptop, how can he/she can agree to marry a person after 10-15 chat.
Root Cause
One cause of this problem is that these day's we don't have get-together. Even if we celebrate our b'days etc, we would be having different party of office, other party of school friend. In this type of culture, we don't get chance to meet to new people. We always have a limited set of people around us and it gets really difficult to find the person of similar nature.
Short Term Solution
People these days are getting into LIVE-IN relationships to find a short term solution of this problem. But not sure, if this is feasible solution in long term.
After discussing the problem, I still don't know what is the solution now.
If anyone see any solution there, please share.