"मैं Parents के साथ रहता हु" To "Parents मेरे साथ रहते हैं."

Though these lines, that "मैं Parents के साथ रहता हु" To "Parents मेरे साथ रहते हैं." sounds very similar, but basically they showcase the thinking that we have for our parents. I may sound too rational, and also not talking about "What people should do?". Rather, I am talking about, that what is happening these days. कब जिंदगी में वो समय आता है के पहले में parents के साथ रहता हुईं, और फ़िर वो मेरे साथ रहने लगते हैं

Why it has become so difficult for our generation to keeping living with our parents. What kind of of independence or individual-space are we expecting. And basically no one accept that he is doing anything wrong.

To understand this.. let me give another example... if we asking anyone, that are you helpful or not. I have not seen a single person, who would say, that I am not helpful but still people that, that this person is not helpful or that person is not helpful. Reason being, everyone has certain limit to "Helping Others". One may see that a financial support of one lacs means helping him/her but the receiver may be expecting ten lac.

In similar sense, when we are not able to live with our parents, we start making excuses that, parents are expecting too much etc etc. But end result is that things have been separated. Before getting married, everyone hates those people who are not supporting their parents. Everyone respect their parents. But how come after getting married, things starts changing. What is required in our generation, that can bring the old joint family culture.